I’m Stef. I’m a writer + graphic designer in Minnesota. I love my wife, my city, technical communication, rhetoric, Star Trek, Sherlock Holmes—and bees, of course. My wife and I are in the process of becoming foster/adoptive parents. We’re looking for an autistic child for our family, the one thing I think we’re missing.
I began this blog with Jesse and we wrote about the dynamics of our neurodiverse relationship. She was The Neurotypical Wife and many of my blog posts have a link to her thoughts on the same subject. Recently we learned that Jesse is not neurotypical and not particularly fond of blogging. So we’re not going to do that anymore. I no longer regularly update this blog but occasionally I do post things. I’ve left it here mostly to keep the resources I’ve posted online.
If you find anything on this blog to be inaccessible or require a content warning that I have missed, please let me know. It is my sincere intent not to exclude anyone.